Etiqueta: limerence
Intermittent Reinforcement: The Hidden Psychological Trigger That Fuels Your Obsession
Intermittent reinforcement makes inconsistent relationships addictive by mixing rare moments of affection with long periods of silence. The unpredictability triggers strong dopamine responses, keeping you chasing the next emotional “hit.” You don’t get hooked on the person, but on the cycle of uncertainty. Breaking the pattern requires cutting contact, challenging irrational fears about abandonment and… →
Limerence: The Delightfully Irrational State Where Your Brain Turns Into an Overcooked Noodle
This post explores limerence, the obsessive form of romantic infatuation defined by psychologist Dorothy Tennov. It outlines its main characteristics, how it differs from stable love, its psychological effects and how it can influence behaviour and relationships. A personal anecdote illustrates how limerence can distort priorities and emotional wellbeing, and how recognising it helps create… →
